When you have a relationship with someone from another country, getting to know what they really think or feel is not that easy. In fact different culture, manners, mentality and the language barrier can make it almost impossible. That is why a courageous and caring man will have to use some workaround to get to the truth and find out what his Russian girlfriend thinks.

Observation

       The easiest way to find out what your Russian girlfriend thinks is to look closer at her behavior and mood. Try to notice how she reacts to news about your success and defeat; see how she talks about your likes and dislikes; pay attention to how often she mentions the words “we” and “us” in your conversations or if she mentions them at all; read her body language and analyze your eye contact; and simply try to find out her feelings by talking to her openly.

Friends

       Use friends of your Russian girlfriend as a source of important information about her thoughts and feelings. Russian girls share many things with their girlfriends. If her girlfriends suddenly stop liking you or even talking to you, you know you did something wrong. However, they can let you know what you did wrong even if they were told not to do that, because her girlfriends definitely want you to try harder and make it work out between the two of you.

Learn Russian

       You're very lucky if your Russian girlfriend speaks perfect English. In most cases in such relationships the girl studies the language while she is dating a foreign guys. It takes time before the person who is studying English can manage to express her thoughts well enough to be able to share her true feelings with you. However, if both partners are trying to reach this understanding by learning each other's languages, the progress comes much faster. Besides, it helps the two of you make the relationship stronger - which Russian girl would not be grateful to a guy just for trying to learn such a difficult language as Russian?!